What About The Kids!
One of the most common reactions to me coming out is genuine concern about my children. I’ve even had loving well-intended family members suggest that I should wait until my children are grown before transitioning. I’d like to point out that this suggestion carries an implicit assumption that it would be better for my children to have a depressed and dysphoric parent than a Trans one. There are other cis-sexist assumptions here but I am choosing not to discuss those at the moment. I want to use today’s post to talk about one of my favorite subjects – my children. My wife and I are very protective of their privacy so I will not use their names but will refer to them with the number of their birth order. I am hoping to give you a brief introduction to their unique personality, as well as discussing their reactions to my transition. I will also briefly discuss their spirituality as there seems to be a concern that having a Trans parent would negatively impact them there. I am “Daddy” to...